In a different instance, in a Hocus Pocus Dutch Bros coffee shirt, another young lady with BPD I worked with, she was present with her feelings from moment to moment, meaning that she fully felt happy when it was a situation she was happy about, her eyes did not show lingering sadness or flatness. And of course in moments when she was angry, her eyes would show anger. Her eyes did not have this constant look that the question is talking about. One of the symptoms of BPD is the extreme idealizing and demonizing of people, and very obviously, the person with BPD is going to have a very different look due to the complete opposite set of feelings they have towards a person they idealize vs a person they demonize.
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