One day my eldest son sat down with his father, my ex, and Elephant and yet despite the look on my face you’re still talking shirt told him he must see a psychologist to help him deal with the divorce. At that time we had been divorced over 5 years and my ex had remarried, divorced her too, and was living alone. My son insisted to his father that he has to stop badmouthing me and living in the past, that he must make a new start in life and if he hasn’t realized this in the past five years he has to get professional help. The days went by and she would call but I wouldn’t pick up. I would see her number and the tears would be streaming down my face but I wouldn’t let myself pick up the phone.